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Daniel's Story


Date:    24 August 1998
From:    Daniel Elzinga   <elzingad@vianet.on.ca>

  I am not the parent of a child born with club feet, but I thought it might be nice for parents to read a story from someone born with it and learn that it is not all that bad. I was born on December 13, 1959. With talipes equinus in both feet. I don’t remember when I had the first operation, or how many it took to correct the problem. My parents tell me I went through 5 separate operations and I have the scars and photos with me in casts to prove it (see attached file). As a child I suffered
the ridicule of the school yard and was teased quite a bit. That I remember! Mobility was the real problem. This was endured though and my only memories are good. For example, playing with friends when I was on crutches; the popular game we played as children was cowboys and Indians or war, of course my crutches became my rifle. My grandmother still tells me the story of me climbing up on her roof  when I was in casts, and it being near impossible for her to get me down. I also remember
destroying my casts through my active youth. This is something to consider if your child is in casts and is as active as I was. I have no fond memories of hospitals but in retrospect it seems quite humorous. You see, most of the other children I saw in the hospital when I was there were in to have their tonsils out. Gee, that looked like a painful thing. Personally I have no memories of pain when I was in the hospital.
There is one scary memory though. I remember when I went to have my casts removed. The nurse brought out what looked like a power saw and I thought he were going to cut me. “Vivid memory of me screaming, and then him showing me that the machine could not hurt me, allowing me to touch it while it was running!”
As I mentioned earlier, mobility was a problem. When I was about nine years old I was out with my brothers one day and exploring the city. It was very difficult to get home. We had walked a long distance and my feet began to ache. Eventually I had to sit and rest while my one brother went ahead and got my parents to get the car to bring me home. This is still something that plagues me to this day, but I have a bike, so it is of little consequence. I can get anywhere, even distance.
Over the years I came to learn my limitations and was even able to participate in sports while in high school. I got into gymnastics and boy could I point my toes. A lousy dismount and broken wrist put an end to that. As I have said, I have no fond memory of hospitals and after being in a cast for 5 weeks for the broken wrist I decided to give up all sports involving any possibility of injury.
Now I am grown and happy and have little if any limitations in my life. Sometimes my feet still bother me, aching if I’m on my feet for too long. I am a professional artist, writer publisher and this does not require that I be on my feet all the time.
I know this is a simple story. The real point is that club feet are not something that will distroy a child’s life.  I had what I think was a pretty severe case. My younger brother, born in 1967, has one club foot. He only went through 2 operations. Sometimes I feel better off then him. His one foot is a full shoe size different then the other. (Snicker, snicker) We used to go buy shoes and he would get his pair by putting two different shoe sizes into on box! He is an honest man and does not do this any more. I think procedures have changed over the years and it must be quite a bit easier now for all.
Thank you for allowing me to share my story.

The image is a colourized photo of my grandmother and I on my front porch in 1965.

 

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